Detroit Athletic Club Wedding

Monday, September 4th, 2023

I was thrilled when they got engaged, honored when they called me, and excited when I heard it was going to be a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.

Teaching, and photography for that matter, are interesting. Despite the job being an act of service, the true reward isn’t for the receiver, but the giver. The students receives an education, but the teacher gains relationships and memories. The student receives an investment of time, attention, and intention while the teacher gains reflection, wisdom, and understanding. When I think back upon the thousands of students who have occupied my classroom, many names and faces are lost to time; however, some will always be remembered. Two of those students are Samantha and Peter.

I have been fortunate enough to have known Sam and Peter for many years and have watched their love mature throughout the high school years and beyond. I think what made our relationship unique was the level of maturity Sam and Peter displayed when our paths first crossed. Both Sam and Peter were hard working, goal oriented, and displayed a heightened sense of character and integrity. In short, they felt like peers instead of students. It made connecting with them easy and, I would imagine, connecting with each other even deeper.

Over the years, I quietly watched the accomplishments of Sam and Peter via Facebook. One day, their engagement announcement popped up on my feed. I couldn’t be happier for them. It felt like watching a touching or romantic movie until the very end, although this wasn’t the end; it was just the beginning. Not too long after their engagement, Sam emailed me about my availability. I was touched. Honored. I would love to be part of their lives one last time. When I asked about how they envisioned their wedding day and what was important to them, they both agreed that a relaxing day where the focus was on each other was paramount. They wanted to be present and truly remember the day. Got it; a generous timeline to allow them to not feel rushed. Lastly, when I asked her for any wedding details, she mentioned they would be having a Detroit Athletic Club wedding reception. The DAC is a gorgeous and elegant venue that offers its guests a glimpse of Detroit history in every room accompanied by the highest level of service. In short, I knew it was going to be a beautiful and memorable wedding for these two.

Both Peter and Sam’s days started off getting ready at their homes with the help of family. Peter was up first and had a few sentimental pieces borrowed from previous generations of men in his family.

A groom shows an Omega watch.

Once Peter was all dressed, we headed to Sam’s house to document her getting ready with the help of her mom and sisters.

Leave it to siblings to have a little fun and show their personalities on a wedding day.

After Sam was ready, she shared a touching first look with her dad. We were told that he would probably cry, but I didn’t expect everyone who was in the room watching to also be crying. It was hard not to be touched when you saw how much he loves his daughter.

A bride hugs her grandma on her wedding day.

Once Sam was ready, we headed to Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb. Years ago, I shot another former student (Katie & Andrew’s) wedding there and loved the intimate feel the chapel offers.

Peter was all smiles seeing his wife for the first time on their wedding day.

The bride and groom exchange rings at the altar on their wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.
The bride and groom exchange rings at the altar on their wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.
The bride and groom exchange rings at the altar on their wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.
The bride and groom exchange rings at the altar on their wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.
A shot from the balcony, the bride and groom kiss at the altar on their wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.
The bride and groom kiss at the altar on their wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.

This is always one of my favorite moments on a wedding day, simply because it is the first time the bride and groom and fully express their emotions. Judging by the smiles on their faces, I would say they were excited to be called husband and wife.

The bride and groom walk down the aisle on their wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.
The bride and groom walk down the aisle on their wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.
A family portrait on a wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.
A family portrait on a wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.
A family portrait on a wedding day at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Macomb, MI.

As we were about to leave the church, I noticed a small staircase and window near the front entrance. It was the perfect spot for an environmental portrait to tell their wedding story.

On our way down to their Detroit Athletic Club wedding, we stopped by the Detroit Public Library for a few pictures with the bridal party.

Groomsmen pose outside of the Detroit public library on a wedding day.
Groomsmen walk outside of the Detroit public library on a wedding day.
Bridesmaids, wearing maroon dresses, pose outside of the Detroit public library on a wedding day.
Bridesmaids, wearing maroon dresses, pose outside of the Detroit public library on a wedding day.
A bridal party poses on the steps of the Detroit public library on a wedding day.
A bridal party walks along the front of the Detroit public library on a wedding day.
A bride and groom pose on their wedding day at the Detroit Public Library.
A bride and groom laugh on their wedding day at the Detroit Public Library.
A bride and groom pose on their wedding day at the Detroit Public Library.
A bride and groom kiss on their wedding day at the Detroit Public Library.
A groom poses on a wall outside of the Detroit Public Library.

To me, these are some of my favorite types of images from a wedding day. The pose isn’t perfect, the light pole isn’t perfectly positioned…but those smiles and that laughter. That is what you want to remember. That is what you want to feel every time you look at these images and think about your special day.

A bride and groom kiss on their wedding day outside the Detroit Public Library.
A bride and groom laugh on their wedding day at the Detroit Public Library.
A bride and groom sit, cuddling, on the steps of the Detroit Public Library on their wedding day.
A bride and groom, holding hands, walk across the front lawn of the Detroit Public library on their wedding day.

After spending some time at the Detroit Public Library, we dropped the bridal party off at Sam and Peter’s Detroit Athletic Club wedding and snuck away for some alone time for the newlyweds. First stop, Parker’s Alley.

A bride and groom pose stoically on their wedding day in Parker's Alley.
A bride looks over her shoulder while the groom looks at her in Parker's Alley.
A couple poses and almosts kisses in Parker's Alley on their wedding day.

While guests began arriving downstairs, we snuck away to the rooftop of their Detroit Athletic Club wedding.

A couple embraces with the Detroit city skyline behind them at their Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
A couple embraces with the Detroit city skyline behind them at their Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
A couple laughs and embraces on the rooftop at their Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
A couple share a kiss on top of the rooftop at their Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
A couple share a quiet moment on top of the rooftop at their Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The reading room is set up for a wedding at the DAC.
The reading room is set up for a wedding at the DAC.
Centerpieces by Emerald City Design at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The ballroom at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The ballroom at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The grand ballroom at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.

After a festive cocktail hour, guests were invited upstairs to the ballroom, where a beautiful event space waited. Sam and Peter were showered with love and accolades during speeches before holding the room’s attention during their first dance.

The parents of the groom give a speech at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
Guests pray over dinner at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The best man toasts the bride and groom at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The bride and groom share their first dance at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The bride and groom share their first dance at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The bride and groom share their first dance at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The father of the bride sings to his daughter during their slow dance at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The father of the bride hugs his daughter during their slow dance at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The father of the bride hugs his daughter during their slow dance at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
The groom dances with his mom at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
A mom squeezes her son while slow dancing at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
A groom dances with his mom as guests look on at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
A groom hugs his mom after a first dance at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.
Guests dance in a packed ballroom at a Detroit Athletic Club wedding.

As guests enjoyed the music, Sam and Peter stepped out for one last quiet moment to remember their night by.

A rooftop photo of a couple celebrating their Detroit Athletic Club wedding.

Hair: Golen Glam Studio

Makeup: Haley Benson Beauty

Transportation: Dream Limousine

Tuxedo: Wesner Tuxedo

Music: Mike Staff Productions

Venue: Immanuel Lutheran Church

Planner: Jennifer Pomerantz at Detroit Athletic Club

Floral: Emerald City Designs